ON ENTREPRENEURSHIP
Today I had lunch with a friend who is starting her own PR firm here in Boston. It makes me so excited to hear about people taking a risk to do something they're really passionate about.
My friend said something that really rang true and struck a chord. She said she was surprised by how generally supportive people have been of her and her new venture. She had expected people to be skeptical of her and, because I'm starting a business myself, I could totally relate to those feelings. In the beginning, I felt anxious (and unqualified) to tell people I was "starting a new business." A lot of this anxiety stemmed from the uncertainty of whether I'd be able to successfully bring this idea to fruition. Like my friend, I was so surprised by the outpouring of support from friends, family, and acquaintances. Without realizing it, I had been psyching myself out with my own fears.
In many ways, running a blog is very similar to running a business. I'm so impressed by the passion, dedication, and entrepreneurial spirit that exudes from my favorite bloggers. Running a blog requires not only commitment but also a thick skin and, for me, starting Neat Bit was far scarier than starting a business. Every blog post is a way of sharing my personal interests with you, but at the same time I realize I'm putting myself out there... and with that comes judgement.
I'm sure there are people who think I'm superficial for having such an unhealthy obsession with handbags -- or that I'm narcissistic for posting photos of myself on the internet. But two things I've learned: (1) life's too short to worry about what others think, and (2) people might be a lot more supportive than you ever imagined!
This blog post is a token of my appreciation to all of you. Thank you so much.
COAT: Burberry
JEANS: J Brand
BAG: Balenciaga
JEANS: Zara
You should absolutely retain that confidence - there are always going to be doubters and envy inspires bitterness. The vast majority of people will support you because they see themselves in a healthy way, which naturally engenders a positive spirit. Personally, I find your blog to be inspiring and a lovely escape for me on the other side of the world at the end of a hard day - plenty of people don't share my passion for fashion and clothes, so I rely on the internet to take me all the way to Boston to hang out with like-minded people :)
ReplyDeleteAlexis, thank you so much for your encouraging words. I feel the same way as you -- and reading others' blogs is a fun way to escape my little world for a bit and see everything else out there. How else can you so intimately follow the every day life of a Parisian fashionista, or a girl in Kansas who shares the same interests? It's really incredible.
DeleteI will come back and read your post when things get me down :)
Preach it, girl :) xoxo
ReplyDeleteClara - I thought of you when I wrote this post! You are the quintessential gutsy girl following her passion and paving her own way!
DeleteOh goodness... you're too kind! I wish we lived closer to we could get together and gush over coffee. I really connected to your points about what people would think about you starting a blog or posting pictures of yourself on the internet. I went through ALL those same feelings, and still do sometimes. Anyway, maybe I'll get myself to Boston in the next few months :). xoxo
DeleteLet me know-it'd be so great to see you and catch up! You're always welcome to stay with us.
DeleteLove this post!
ReplyDeleteElaine, I never realized you are a such a foodie! Love your blog!
DeleteLove your shoes!
ReplyDeletexoxo,diana
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Thanks Diana :)
DeleteBest of luck to your friend. This is a dream of mine as well. I would love to meet her. Always looking to network with others in the field. Hope you had a great Thanksgiving, Bettina!
ReplyDeleteI would be so happy to put you two in touch! Will I get to see you at a Ginger committee meeting soon? Hope you had a great Thanksgiving too :)
DeleteWise words and good for your friend! Love this jacket...so chic!
ReplyDeleteThanks Jaime!
DeleteGo for it! As scary as it may seem things will fall into place and it will be worth it. Don't know why anyone should post anything unpleasant on another persons blog, we love your posts.
ReplyDeleteSo sweet of you - thanks Mol!
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